There is no way that anyone who is not familiar with the concept of the Trinity would think that by calling Mary, *mother of God*, that you would by default mean *mother of God INCARNATE* or *mother of Jesus*.
Then the solution would be to become familiar with the concept of the Trinity as well as the hypostatic union of Jesus. To say that Mary is the mother of Jesus but not the mother of God is to say that Jesus is not God. I don’t see any other way to explain it.
The solution is to teach correctly about who Jesus is, not mess with changing what the Holy Spirit inspired.