Novus Ordo Catholics dance around the issue because they know something’s off big time after Vatican II but they’re not willing to deal with it. True Traditionalist Catholics (ie. those that are more concerned with traditional doctrine than the smells and bells of the Latin mass) at least try to wrestle with it. They come to different conclusions but they at least wrestle with it.
I will predict there will be a large exodus from the Catholic Church in the not too distant future.