It's not the falling away. A little study of the ancient Greek helps.
646 apostasía (from 868 /aphístēmi, "leave, depart," which is derived from 575 /apó, "away from" and 2476 /histémi, "stand") properly, departure (implying desertion); apostasy literally, "a leaving, from a previous standing." [http://biblehub.com/greek/646.htm]
The departure of the ekklesi happens before that "man of sin" can be revealed.
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No one “departs” before the Man of Sin is revealed.
You, make Paul a liar.
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