Grieving is a selfish act. The dead do not care, they’re dead after all. The grieving shouldn’t make it all about them. So, “get over it, and get on with living.”
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Demonstrative of one who knows human nature not in the slightest. Grieving is the act of a human being.
Unless you’re a sociopath.
There is a difference between grieving and wallowing in one’s own self pity.
For one that professes to be in touch with feelings you seem to have a way of showing kind words to others. There was no malice in the words that I wrote. Grieving is a human emotion which happens to be inwardly focused. It is all about the personal feeling of loss. Hence, selfish. One can choose what do human emotions. Personally, I rejoice in their going to heaven. In the case of a non-Christian, the heaven part doesn’t apply. Sucks to be them. So, they need to get over it. There is nothing sociopathic about that.