I haven’t really seen that much on this thread to be tormented about.
Doing an internet search, though, I did find commentaries and apologetics on both sides of the issue.
You might find the following interesting. It’s title is “Scriptural Proof: Mary is Not the Mother of God.” It helped me understand how it can be said that Mary is not the mother of God. Whether Mary is or is not the mother of God, the bottom is always our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. He is the one.
http://contenderministries.org/Catholicism/marymother.php
If you actually read through that article, which I have no doubt you may have, you can see the error in calling Mary the “mother of God”. The Holy Spirit did not inspire the writers to write “mother of God” for a reason. I hope you noticed the pagan origin of the term “mother of god”. That will give you insight to how many of the things that are done and taught by the Catholic Church entered into that religion.