Christians are not under the law...
Rom_11:6 And if by grace, then is it no more of works: otherwise grace is no more grace. But if it be of works, then is it no more grace: otherwise work is no more work.
Gal 5:4 Christ is become of no effect unto you, whosoever of you are justified by the law; ye are fallen from grace.
You trying to rob this person of God's grace???
No, she's trying to make them work for it.
The Commandments of God are have no expiry date.