You apparently think that one FReeper ---Af-Vet-1981-- was trying to silence Christian women on this Forum, but that's not as I see it.
(I'm presuming to speak for another FReeper here, which is usually a losing proposition. However...)
My understanding of it is, that Af-Vet-1981 was challenging certain FReeper females to explain why they do not abide by the stricter interpretation of the cited Scriptures at 1 Cor. 14 and 1 Tim. 2. Some Christian groups do take a stricter or more literal approach. My own Church teaches that:
Other Christian churches (but not mine)go further in obedience to Paul, and teach that:
So, on these particular points, what say ye?
Read my post again. I just gave you my answer as was Paul's. Organized "churches" can do as they please just as the Catholic Church does. The very fact that they are man's created organizations is sign enough that they do not follow the New Testament concept of the ekklesia. The organized authoritative hierarchy of todays churches has no basis in scripture.