I can not disagree with your Church's doctrine...Hey, it's your church...But Jesus gave no such command to His church...Why does your religion make a liar out of God???
Mat 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
If a divorce is the result of fornication, the one who did not commit the fornication is allowed to re-marry and have a healthy sex life...
And these people are under the law...Sabbath worshiping, pork abstaining Jews under the law...
What if the stated reason for the divorce is just the standard "irreconcilable differences"?