Ever see that movie "The Lion King"? You know when the hyeninas are teasing Scar? They keep saying in an exaggerated whisper "Mustafa! Mustafa!" They end up scareing themselves.
That is how it is here on FR "Catholic!, Catholic!" ROFLMAO! If I can't have fun, what's the point? ()}:0)
But as for all fear thing which you imagine is in others --- if I'm understanding the concept you seem to be trying to sell -- I think you have who is who more backwards than not.