Question for you then.
You’re Catholic. Your husband is Jewish.
1) Were you married in the Catholic Church?
2) If your wedding was in the Catholic Church was it a wedding Mass?
Of course we were married in the Church. My Priest asked if I wanted the long version or the short one, since it was a very small wedding and no one from my husband’s side was coming, we opted for the short ceremony.
My wife and I were married in a full Mass over 30 years ago.
I was an unbaptized hethen at the time.