No one has been saved yet.
The saving grace will only be for those who were truly in him, and it will be at the last trump, just as Yeshua clearly stated.
Those that found excuses for rejecting his loving commandments, will hear the words of Matthew 7:23 at the Great White Throne.
Yeshua told us that only the few would find his narrow gate, those that truly sought it.
This has nothing to do with Card games, nor what sort of beverage we imbibe, but how we fed his sheep, and how we kept his commandments holy.
Paul said it, James said it, John said it, and Peter said it. Why do so few believe them?
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I believe you're partly right. How we keep His commandments are part of our sanctification process. But it hasn't anything to do with our salvation except give testimony to it. Nor can we look at others-only ourselves- as everyone is walking a different walk.
As far as feeding his sheep, I think most of the fruit we bear for God we know nothing about while those things we think are so important are rubbish to God.
Mat 25:37 Then the righteous will answer him, saying, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink?
God only wants us to be faithful to Him. He will bear the fruit.