PigRigger, none of this is your fault. No one is to blame.
Understanding this is the most precious gift of Alanon, and I urge you to go to as many meetings as you can. You, not just your wife. People in these groups have been through every possible pain, every crazy situation, every scam our addict/alcoholics can pull on us. You can discuss anything there. And you should. Please don’t let this destroy your health and happiness.
God bless.
Big Day today....taking Amanda’s boyfriend up to Albany.....praise & thank God...
Please pray for both Amanda and Pat.... May God fill there hearts & souls with His love and mercy.... and let them experience a life beyond all expectations....!