Jesus never forced himself on people. You could merely pray for these children and mountains would be moved. (merely! ha)
However, if you want to save these children, then approach the family unit, the mother and/or father.
You don’t have to get the parents to come, but you must go through them. They are the God given authority over these children.
Exactly. The parents are the front door. It's the thief who has to sneak in some other way.