[xzins]

I’ve never been in a church dumb enough to say “girls don’t care about sex” and “after marriage sexual fulfillment comes naturally”.

I actually believe that touching is a gateway to sex.

And, so far as abstinence leading to mind-blowing sex, I’d know what someone meant, but I’d laugh at them for saying it that way.

So, these aren’t ‘lies that churches teach’. They’re a combination of myths about church, a decent warning, and a corny statement.

[cloudmountain]

I actually believe that touching is a gateway to sex.
It CAN be, if both folks are amenable.

And, so far as abstinence leading to mind-blowing sex, I’d know what someone meant, but I’d laugh at them for saying it that way.
I'd laugh with you. The word "quickie" comes to mind,

So, these aren’t ‘lies that churches teach’. They’re a combination of myths about church, a decent warning, and a corny statement.
Every culture, population and ethnicity has had the same myths, jokes, promises, shibboleths and lies about sex and marriage.
Husband and wife can create some great chemistry. BUT chemistry isn't going to make for a successful marriage. A WHOLE LOT MORE is needed for that. But, you know that.

By the way, isn't sex connected with chocolate? It's been a while but I THINK I remember right.