Unfortunately I agree with you.
I don’t think there’s anyone who believes God is sending unborn souls into Hell for eternity, but believing dying unborn is a means of salvation seems to fly against the entire Gospel message.
I believe their mothers have brought a great darkness onto their future existence.
I guess I still have hope for them after Christ returns and makes all things right.
“Unfortunately I agree with you...”
Yes - it is the only logical conclusion that preserves the principal of non-contradiction, i.e., contradictory statments cannot both be true. You must be baptized to get into heaven and unbaptized babies go to heaven. Although God can do anything and is not bound by our laws, at the same time as our Father the instructions He gave (through His Son) us in scripture are to be adhered to and the Father is logical when dealing with mankind because our intellects are dim.
Also - God clearly makes other states than two. Paradise was perfect happiness and Adam and Eve were thrilled with it. John 14:2 In my Father’s hosue are many mansions. If not, I would have told you: because I go to prepare a place for you.