The differences between the two is telling isn’t it. None of the bad things happen at the sound of the trump in 1 Thessalonians 4. Forcing the two to be the same is inserting words into either one or both texts.
The difference between a believer, and a pre-tribber is what is “telling.”
When the missiles start raining in, throw your copy of “The Late Great Planet Earth” into the fire, and go out to watch the woes.