Does it matter? Whichever side would be the "wrong" one, and being there is enough "deposit of double-talk" to quote mine from --- it can be proven you are wrong.
Feel the love (you heretic). Oh, and come home, too. We've missed you while we've bashed you, calling you a liar up one side and down the other...
I've never understood the abused wife syndrome, where she keeps going back to the man who beats her.
I've experienced enough of the loving arms of the Catholic church since I was a kid. It was no different then when I was a Catholic than it is now.
I'll pass, thankyouverymuch.