This is what I am taking from the arguments here:
me: “Mom, Dad, I have a test in school next week. Please help me with my studying”
parents: “All the answers are in this text book. Study it, and don’t ask anyone to help you study.”
Well then you are hearing wrong. No one is saying that people can’t help each other study scripture or point to clarifying passages that help to understand. What is being said is that practices and beliefs not taught in scripture or directly contradict scripture are not to be followed or believed.