>> “What I am trying to say is that, is that, instead of arguing on the small details, find what can help bring Christians from all the different churches together” <<
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There is no value in bringing conflict together, because that requires compromise, and compromise always means that evil is forced on all.
Better that we go out as individuals, as Christ instructed, and spread what solid truth we may have to as many people as possible.
It worked in the first century, resulting in spreading the gospel to the entire world, and it can work again.
That is what we are called to do, go out and spread the good news of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.