[annalex]

if the Bishops will not enforce the rules, then I must leave the church

That's a non-sequitur. The church is there to lead you to salvation, not to police the rules. I agree with your frustration and share it, but there is but one Holy Church.

[defconw]

I concede your point. But, when i stand before God seething with anger and suspicion about the people I must wish peace to, I am hardly being christian let alone catholic.