Not a big deal? I don’t know how you can say that. The central message of the Bible is the gospel of Jesus Christ, Christ’s death, burial, and resurrection, the eternal purpose of God from the foundation of the world was that Christ would come into the world to die for our sins. That is what the Bible says, it says nothing at all about him seeking out a woman to marry her.
The salvation of the human race was at stake. Man is a sinner needing a savior to save us from our sins. His mission was the cross, you and I were born sinners into this world, our sins will send us the hell, Christ’s atoning death saves us from that destiny - for those that believe that was his mission, that is.
you are right on the freakin button.......