I don’t have a problem with any of it.
Kids should be in kids church, where they can be taught and serve others. They should not be forced to sit in adult services, they just aren’t capable of sitting still, so if they are quite its a start.
I do not care how people dress when they come, it is not a fashion show. The unSaved and Saved come to church, I welcome them.
People who are regulars should come to serve not be served, and looking at someone to determine whether they are worthy to be there is ridiculous.
If a person pledges to fast for what ever reason and they eat, that is between them and God. It has nothing to do with me.
I do not know what “hooker” heals are, flip flops, so? I like like sandals myself.
I am not sure why throwing garbage thrown away is a big deal, rather have that happen than in the parking lot.
Now, sun glasses - that is my personal issue, I can’t stand talking to anyone that wear sunglasses but it doesn’t bother some people.
So there you have it.
I would rather have someone come to church in a miniskirt and 6in heels (hooker heels) or high/drunk who needs to hear the Gospel than stay home. If they become disruptive that is another problem, but that is a problem no matter how you are dressed or your mental state.
The Sunday my best friend accepted Christ she was reluctant to go to church with us because she was visiting from San Deigo and didn’t have any ‘church clothes’. I told her jeans, tshirt and flip flops were fine - and they were. That Sunday changed her entire life, because that was the Sunday she heard the Gospel of Grace and accepted Christ wearing jeans, tshirt and flip flops.