Indeed.
So, when the State recognizes queers married to one another as a valid marriage in the eyes of the State good Protestants will accept queers married to one another as a fine Christian marriage in the eyes of their church.
I can see why so many Protestants are willing to ordain queers now that you've explained it is the State that is the final authority on what you accept as Christian. The fact of the matter is that "anyone who's honest about it" realizes that most Protestants accept whatever the State tells them and whatever is popular within society. Whether they rationalize scamming people to make a quick buck or rationalize contraception to avoid self-control, if it's socially acceptable it's Protestant doctrine sooner or later.
All Protestants end up worshiping their, Most High and Holy Self, sooner or later. No matter where they start from they all end up following Eve rather than Christ.