Also, (God forgive me again), I find myself judging, "why don't all these folks come for other services, not many of them are out-of-towners..."
We are in the middle of Holy Week, so I am making a determined effort to attend as many services as I can (it's never crowded during the Week!), and pray for strength to have a go-with-flow attitude come Saturday night. The Easter Homily of St. John Chrysostom is very helpful for keeping a welcoming spirit to those who arrive at the "Eleventh Hour."
It’s good to see there is at least one other EO still lurking on the FR. I always take Holy Week off in order to attend all the services. On Pascha its standing room only and I (like you) struggle to not judge all these people who suddenly appear and line up for the eucharist. The challenge is good for the soul.