It is not about what I like or want, or even what the majority of American Catholics believe. God is very clear in what He has said about divorce and remarriage.
Did God actually say that or was that a translation by men in the 2nd or 3rd century? I will be honest I'm not that familiar with the Bible, (though I do believe in God very much) but is there not passages in the Old Testament about killing your wayward daughters etc? No Christian today would do that.
I said before the God I know who is a loving God. I also want to add he is a just God and a reasonable God. God would never condemn a person to a lifetime of loneliness because their spouse did something stupid that was out of their control.
My GF's ex left her for another women he met at his work after 12 years of marriage. My GF is one of the most caring, unselfish and loving person I have ever met. To say that God does not want her to get remarried and she would be condemned by HIM for doing so is not something God would ever condemn.