For the religious services, nobody said one word about cost: not one word even about a "suggested donation." We finally --- just on our own initiative --- gave the choral director $25 for the benefit of the choir's expenses: she was utterly surprised and said nobody had every done that before.
You are quite mistaken, my friend.
Mrs. D: Costs vary from state to state. Looks like Tennessee has real bargain rates...maybe I’ll move there before I cork off just to get those special rates!
My friend just buried her husband of 40 yrs here in PA. and $10 grand was the cost. In PA. there are so many rules and regulations: big expense is there must be a concrete vault in the ground.
In NYC,gravediggers (union) get $30 an hour.
If you handed the choral director $25 in NYC, she would tell everyone you were a cheapskate.
Gee, even the altar boys get $20 apiece.