You and your family did exactly what I WANT for mine. I want laughter (and believe me, through the years I have given plenty of ammo). I want a celebration of my life, not a sadness of my death. I want friends to start out with, “I remember the time we_________” and then have some humorous story that follows. I would rather tears from laughter than tears from sadness.
They are tears of love...
and they are going to come out for you...