Why does to disagree = attack, hostility & hate to you? Did you grow up in a conflicted home where that was the case?
Can't somebody disagree with somebody else without you pulling out your Magic 8 ball and judging inner motives upon someone? (Posts #65 & this one, #312)
You can say, that this or that is an evil practice but to presume you are judge and executioner isn’t very Jesus Like.
Look at the other apostles, look at the Saints. There is a long tradition on this topic.