I'm not sure I follow your logic. God gives us to tools to come to Him and we come to Him with the tools He provides. I don't understand how difficult this is to understand or what seems to be the disconnect. After all we sing, "I once was lost but now am found, was blind but now I see" or "...through the eyes of sinful men thy glory may not see."
So much for Amazing Grace or Holy, Holy, Holy. I don't think people think of the words they are singing anymore.
As far as the insanity, I truly understand your point.
Rejection implies the ability to accept. You cannot reject what you cannot accept.