Getting a little off-topic, are we? Obviously, choice two would always be worse than choice one. After a nuclear disaster or alien invasion or zombie attack, then repopulating the planet might require polygamy. That's why there are so many movies about those 'possible' eventualities. However, THIS thread is about the dangers posed by ACTUAL polygamists TODAY. Reality just isn't as much fun.
Actually I was trying to get you back onto the question I originally posed in post #9.
Now you’ve finally answered it, and what do you know, we came down on the same side.