Dear friend,
I recommend reading the following book, it will help you grasp many things
The Brothers Karamazov by Fyodor Dostoyevsky
http://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/28054
Hi stfassisi,
Thanks for the recommendation. I might look at it a little when I have the time, although I can’t guarantee it will change my views.
Likewise, you (and everyone) can check out an article I wrote this past October. It covers the topic of abusive manipulation tactics, and how to be less susceptible to them.
http://discoprojoe.hubpages.com/hub/If-I-Wanted-to-Hurt-You
Happy reading!