No offense, you are fixated on the lesser of the points I have raised, and up to this point you have ignored entirely.
Someone who lives a perfect and sinless life would not have behaved the way Mary behaved towards Jesus in this circumstance. By saying “How could you treat us this way?” is saying that Jesus did not treat her and Joseph properly. Insofar that he stayed at the temple without their knowledge, that it took them three days of frantic (anxious) searching to find Him. Yet Jesus says they should have known where He was, in His Father’s house. Basically his refute is saying there was no basis for them to feel like He did anything wrong (which He didn’t).
But again, you spend no time on the other points I raise, for the second time. Which are far stronger evidence and not refutable, which is why I believe you don’t reference them at all.
We don’t seem to be connecting. Perhaps another time. God bless.