[metmom]

Sheesh, I just copied and pasted without paying close enough attention.

Besides, I’ve learned that situations like this are a lose/lose situation.

If I include someone, I get shredded for bringing it up.

If I don’t include someone, I get shredded for talking about them behind their back.

There’s just no pleasing some people so I just make the call and deal with the fallout later.

[Judith Anne]

There’s just no pleasing some people so I just make the call and deal with the fallout later

As do we all, no one here is the Lone Ranger.

[presently no screen name]

There’s just no pleasing some people so I just make the call and deal with the fallout later.

This way they get attention either way - why did you ping me? why didn't you ping me? Anything but the topic at hand.