“You still haven’t answered my question.
How are your children doing?”
I didn’t answer because I don’t see how derailing the discussion with personal issues would contribute to anything. Since you’re so interested, I don’t have any children (yet). Want to donate some?
Well, one useful "test" for a doctrine is -- how well does it work at home? Most fundamentalist Christians are pre-mil. Most fundamentalist Christians see their kids jump ship. Cause and effect? I think that can be plausibly asserted. Deny your kids a future, and they'll go looking for someone who isn't sitting passively on folded hands, gloating over the misfortune of others.
I became aware of the classical Reformed post-mil position in 1980. When our kids started coming along in 1983, by God's kind provision, I had more to offer them than "88 reasons why the Rapture will be in 1989." I pray that you will, too.