And that is your experience.
My experience is different.
One might say that it’s that simple.
God is aware of all.
And He works His mysterious ways, even with those you may say are not talking about God.
I have learned that just as all that glitters is not gold, that in the same way, all that is “talk” is not necessarily genuine.
I could write a book about that.
It is not mysterious at all.. I know when I am in the fellowship of Christians, because we can NOT talk about God.
" Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks "