Well I think blessed means blessed, God blessed mary, she was not however Bless ed she was blessed
I get what you're getting at, but I wonder why all the effort to do so. This kind of effort at knocking Mary down a peg - blessed not bless ed for example - tends to reduce the Incarnation and as a consequence deficient Christology and further problems with the Holy Trinity. Mary is the way through which God chose to make the Word become flesh. Separating off, reducing any part of it, reduces or diminishes the Incarnation - fundamental to the Christian faith.
Are you the one that said that "Jesus' body carried God."
This is just ridiculous.
From Dictionary.com:
bless·ed /ˈblɛsɪd; especially for 3, 7 blɛst/ Show Spelled [bles-id; especially for 3, 7 blest] Show IPA adjective 1. consecrated; sacred; holy; sanctified: the Blessed Sacrament. 2. worthy of adoration, reverence, or worship: the Blessed trinity. 3. divinely or supremely favored; fortunate: to be blessed with a strong, healthy body; blessed with an ability to find friends. 4. blissfully happy or contented. 5. Roman Catholic Church . beatified. 6. bringing happiness and thankfulness: the blessed assurance of a steady income. 7. Informal . damned: I'm blessed if I know. 8. Informal . (used as an intensifier): every blessed cent