Pardon me if I have less than sanguine view of your approval. Your brethren leave a great deal to be desired.
No pardon needed. Your judgments are between you and God.
Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. - Matt 7:1-2
I am just a Christian plain and simple. My prayers do not end, so if anyone had ever offended me (and no one has) then forgiving and forgetting would be instantaneous.
Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive [them], and ye shall have [them]. And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses. But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses. – Mark 11:24-26