Have you ever considered that the terms father and son were metaphorical ?shalom b'SHEM Yah'shua HaMashiachOr do you create G-d in your own image ?
I do not presume to define G-d in human images.
At the risk of being presumptuous, I would also like to suggest that you try to refrain from harsh condemnation of others who may know less than you or possibly more than you.
Let no man therefore judge you [or others] on meat, or in drink, or in respect of an holyday, or of the new moon, or of the sabbath days: which are a shadow of things to come; but the body is of Christ. Colossians 2:16-17.
Being what appears to be a (possibly orthodox?) Jew who has accepted Jesus as Messiah, you may have to unlearn certain traditions of man that are not according to the revelation of Jesus and the New Testament in Gods Word. It may be difficult but will reap you great rewards.
God bless you in your journey with Him.