No, I'm saying that flame wars result when no moderator exists to extinguish them.
That was not a personal comment, although your question could be interpreted as an attempt to make it personal.
Furthermore, I wasn't reading your mind
You came close enough to it to get a warning. Raising the topic of whether I'm following my own advice is making me the subject of discussion, rather than the issue at hand. I believe that's why RM entered into the discussion; historical precedent is the basis for that belief.