Petulance as opposed to true dogmatic differences is not a good reason to abandon the Church. It does explain the lack of clarity and understanding of the Catechism and dogma.
One man’s ‘petulance’ is another man’s calling by the Holy Spirit.
I understand what the Catholic church really teaches and my observations of Catholic lifestyle demonstrate that there is little or no connection between what they claim to believe and the practical everyday working out of their faith and that goes for the man on the street to the priests who molest children to the bishops and popes who are slack in dealing with said priests.
The way you talk to and about others is continuing evidence that none of the hypocrisy I’ve observed Catholics engaging in has changed one iota.