Maybe not, but worry more about crack whores and rapists, and let decent people who dream of becoming parents have that dream.
They're not just dreaming of becoming parents. Adoptive parents are parents. They're dreaming of being pregnant and giving birth.
I was sad for a long time because God didn't send us children, but we did as much medical intervention as the Catholic Church approves, unsuccessfully, and we decided to accept God's will and move on. Now, with Steve's health problems, I believe that God knew what a burden it would put on us to also be raising a young child.