It doesn't matter whether the baby was due to an oopsie in the back seat, a violent rape, sex in the marital bed, sex in the office coffee room with your married boss, or IVF with donor sperm.
Who is going to slam a loving, married couple who have tried everything to have a baby and end up using a donor sperm or egg and finally becoming parents? With all the evil and abuse in the world, you are really going to condemn people who want more than anything in the world to be parents?
Those of you who think being infertile means you should never use technology to have a child should yourselves walk or ride a pony to your next cross-country business trip. "G-d would NEVER have wanted" you to use a jet airplane.
Well said and absolutely right!
I seriously doubt those children conceived for that reason are the ones with the identity issues.
That does not mean he approves of the wrong/evil methods of their creation.