I think some mean it as simply letting the barbs drop Quix....one thing I noted on the religious threads is that people do have a tendency to knock one another....keeping in mind the nature of THIS thread to assist another whose family member has fallen into the dark side would seem to me not the place for this out of respect for the situation.
Since there seems to be already a battle to win their family back...why muddy the waters by insults and barbs to wade thru to get the info sought.
FAIR ENOUGH.
THX THX.
Though I’m not clear where there was a barb.