Or could it be "you" don't matter so much anymore, because "men" just don't have the clout they used to in the workplace, the home, and society in general? Because they are being marginalized in all sorts of institutional settings : gov't workplace, private workplace, private clubs, churches and so on ? Could it be men (in their traditional roles) have been overtaken by a feminist super-government that finds them either superfluous or irritating ?
Excellent points.