“You have less faith in the salvic power of God than I do. So sad.”
Your judgement of my faith is what is sad, shame on you.
The Word of God says that adulterers will face an accounting. That if you divorce your husband or wife without cause and sleep with another then you are committing adultery.
Perhaps your problem is with the Word of God?
See http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/religion/2509720/posts?page=231#231
Read all that I wrote. You seem to believe that Mel is beyond salvation. Nothing in the Holy Writ supports that kind of a view.