1000 silverlings has answered your question, more than once by his account.
So why are you reacting like that?
Did he not give specific enough information to you?
What more are you looking for and why?
Some folks have a habit of trying to
squeeze blood out of a turnip;
demand ambrosia from a rock;
sweet wine from their own vinegar spewing;
melodious singing from twisting others’ noses.
As near as I can guess, it must come from some odd emotional/psycho-dynamic obsession with
perhaps a kind of compulsion to be cold and prickly; obstinate, mean-spiritedly harshly assaultive and obnoxious whenever the least bit of opportunity to be so can be created and foisted on others.
Some rabid clique sorts seem to be more afflicted with the habitual obsession than others.
I’ve prayed earnestly about a solution or even a cure but have received nothing that seems to be the least bit redemptive for such habits, . . . so far.
Even fiesty humor responses mildly in kind seem to do not the least bit of good.