My husband is still on the rolls. He hasn’t been active since 1968. LOL, the Mormon Church sure likes to keep track of its members.
Since 1968 he’s been inactive except for a brief period around 1984 when we thought we might get ‘sealed.’ We found out we couldn’t ever be married righteously in the Temple since my ex-husband wouldn’t submit the necessary papers to “allow” it.
Then writing a letter demanding no contact won’t be a problem. If he doesn’t want contact either then have him sign it as well.
Basically state you and your husband are DEMANDING no contact, that means...and list all contact you get (fast offerings, HTs etc).
Tell them you are no longer a member and you will persue legal action if they continue to harass you. tell them this is effective immediately and there will be no discussion.
Be firm, give them an inch they will take a mile.
We found out we couldn’t ever be married righteously in the Temple since my ex-husband wouldn’t submit the necessary papers to “allow” it.
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This is the kind of control over its members that REALLY REALLY ticks me off about the LDS.
Your EX-husband has the final say on who you are married to for eternity? That is disgusting.