[irishtenor]

I still have no idea what the subject is about. You gave a title, but no substance. Please elaborate.

[WhatsItAllAbout]

Basically I am trying to point out it is not what is done to you, but how you respond to it.

Broadly stated is about an action verses a reaction. The individual cannot control the actions against themselves but only their reactions to the action.

It's not all that complex, but it is true none the less.