But then, you do not think you need to be winsome or funny or charming or anything other than what you are
"Winsome?" lol. Is "winsome" a requirement for salvation?
But you're right. I do not "need to be winsome or funny or charming" to be saved. I only need to receive God's grace through faith in Jesus Christ.
If you don't have it, pray for it. God is gracious to those who ask with a humble heart.
"Be not afraid; only believe." -- Mark 5:36