“...acting in a way incongruent with His priorities”
God has given to us an excellent understanding of what is conguent with His priorities:
* You shall love the Lord God with your whole heart and your whole mind and your whole soul...
...and your neighbor as yourself.
* Love one another as I have loved you.
* He who seeks only himself brings himself to ruin, whereas he who brings himself to nought for Me discovers who he is.
Absolutely.
And assumptions about such
vis a vis
their application in another believer’s life
can be quite hazardous.